Mira!!!

After what seemed like a lifetime, I was finally reunited with my beautiful little miracle! She's so beautiful, I could hardly stand it! Her skin is so soft, and I finally got to just touch her! I got to rub her little shoulder and caress her legs! Her complexion is so perfect, I accused her of using fake tanner! It's bittersweet when she whimpers... on the one hand, it's heartbreaking to hear her whimper because I don't want her to be upset; but on the other hand, hearing her little noises is music to my ears! Plus, when she whines, I get to rub her cheek and soothe her back to comfort!
It feels so good to actually feel like her Mommy! Don't get me wrong, I know she's mine, and have known that... but going from being pregnant, to having your baby taken from you immediately, to only seeing pictures and videos of her for days... it kind of makes you feel like you're not doing what a Mommy should be doing, like a Mommy would be right there, like a Mommy would be more involved! It feels like she's not real, she's just this beautiful little thing off in the distance somewhere, but she's not really here. Well not now! Now I got to be here! I got to claim her, and be involved, and show her that Mommy is here, and I'm not going anywhere, because I am Mommy, and Mommies are here to stay!
Mommies are also here to feed babies, which is why I'm ecstatic to report that I was able to pump 4 cc's of colostrum tonight! She is eating roughly 10 cc's per feeding, so she'll still need formula until my supply builds up to normal, but my breasts are finally on the way to being worthy again! Mira was the key all along! After I got to her and enjoyed being reunited with her, I sat beside her, rubbed her arm, and started pumping... and what do ya know, I got a few drops! As the night progressed, I got more and more drops each time I pumped! So it was a catch 22... I needed to make milk for my baby, but my boobs needed my baby in order to make milk! But I can't actually nurse her yet even though we are back together now.
Mira cannot be held or moved around yet at all while the temporary spinal fluid drain is connected to her head. The drain will be removed on Tuesday during her shunt placement surgery, and after that we'll be able to handle her! She can't have any pressure put on her back at all, so we won't be able to hold her the way a baby normally gets held, but I can't wait to lay her belly on top of my belly and just cuddle with her!
She's so strong, too! The nurses were yelling at her, in a very impressed kind of way, because she kept lifting her head up and wiggling all around! They were like "What are you doing? Where do you think you're going, little lady?!? You're not supposed to be doing that right now!" They're also very impressed with how much she weighs! They said they're not used to having this much baby to work with, and that her being so big is a great sign of how healthy she is!
Her incision is healing wonderfully, but she still isn't showing much sign of having sensation in her legs or feet. Only time will tell, though. She certainly has function of her upper body! She moves her arms all around, picks herself up off the bed a little bit, moves her binky around, and even grabs ahold of the mattress and blankets! I can also see the difference in her face now that the drain was put into her head. In the pictures I have of her before, her eyes and face were really swollen from all of the pressure in her head from the hydrocephalus. Her head was pretty swollen, and her facial features were definitely distorted because of it. But now that the drain is in place and has had some time to relieve her ventricles, her eyes aren't quite as puffy, and her facial features are starting to look unaffected. She's been opening her beautiful little eyes a lot, too! They're gorgeous, of course! She also has the cutest little butt in the whole world, which is good, because hers has to be hanging out all the time! In order to prevent any interference or irritation with the healing of her incision on her back, she has to be on her belly at all times, and her diaper has to be folded down away from her incision. So her little butt is sticking up out in the open for all to see all the time... so like I said, good thing she has the most adorable butt ever, because I never get tired of looking at it!
I first felt relief during this experience when I got news that she made it out of her surgery yesterday. And now, I'm feeling the same type of relief just knowing I'm not being kept away from her anymore. I'm so relieved that I'm here now, and that no matter what we're about to go through, we are gonna go through it together! Everything else just feels so small in comparison to all this... like everything else is going to be okay because it just has to be in comparison. I'm confident that THIS is going to be okay, so if all of this can be fine, then everything else in life can be, and will be, too! Mira is an inspiration, and she doesn't even know what that is yet! If this little girl, this brand new baby Joe and I made from scratch, this tiny little life, can be so strong and fight through so much and make it look so easy to be such a miraculous person, then there's really no excuse for the rest of us! Being amazing no longer seems optional because everyone is amazing, and Mira has shown me that you can be amazing without even trying! To her, she's just living, she's just surviving... but to me, she's moving mountains, performing magic, and being a hero! She's my little hero! I don't think I've ever looked up to someone so much in my whole life, especially someone so small! We definitely picked the right name for her... Mira Cole is a miracle!