About Me

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My fiance (Joe) and I (Caytie) just delivered our third child. We have a son named Dustin, age 4, a daughter named Aryanna, age 1, and our new little bundle's name is Mira, and she has been diagnosed with spina bifida. She has a myelomeningocele, a chiari malformation, hydrocephalus, and a club foot. She had surgery the day after she was born on her myelomeningocele, and surgery when she was 6 days old to place a shunt in her brain. She is facing more surgeries, a lifetime of recovery and monitoring, and we will all be facing the journey of spina bifida. Prayers and kind thoughts are always welcome, and if our story can help others, that would mean the world to us. Spina bifida is a fairly common birth defect, but there's nothing normal about facing potential danger with your child. So this is our story, the journey of spina bifida, as we live it.

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Mira, The Con Artist?

Today Mira had her weekly in-home therapy session through early intervention. We usually do her therapies at1:30 on Thursdays because it seems to be a good day for scheduling, and normally at 1:30 she's happy and alert, so ready to participate.
Today, my early intervention coordinator also attended the appointment along with Mira's therapist so we could fill out a questionnaire to monitor her progress. After the questionnaire, it was time to do Mira's therapy. Two stretches in, she started doing the "pain cry" so her therapist thought we should give her a break. This cry usually means gas bubbles, so I was working on getting gas out of her and changing her position for about ten minutes when her therapist thought it might be a good idea to just skip therapy for the day. He said he'll give her a get out of therapy free card because he doesn't want to make her work when she's not feeling well. So I continued to hold and soothe her while we set up next weeks appointment, and then our visitors left.
Roughly 20 seconds after they closed the door upon their exit, Mira stopped crying and was all smiles. I think she conned us. I think she metaphorically put her foot down! I think that this week, she drew the line at the harness and refused to partake in her hour therapy session where she has to work. And once again, I can't say I blame her! My beautiful little miracle, and con artist, has had enough for this week. I guess we'll see how she feels next week!